We really need to think 🤔

Since childhood we have heard that while a 🪔 is glowing , life is auspicious . But when a 🪔 goes off , life becomes inauspicious . So , diyas 🪔 are  lit in every household . We take care that flame of the 🪔 doesn't get extinguished . The flame might flicker immediately ghee or oil is added into that Diya 🪔 . Even if there is a slight breeze around the Diya 🪔 . We rush to protect the flame from the breeze . Because if the flame 🔥 goes off , life becomes inauspicious . When the flame 🔥 goes off in someone's home , people feel anxious , believing that something inauspicious might happen since the Diya 🪔 off.

WE REALLY NEED TO THINK

It is only a lamp . How can it make our life auspicious when it is glowing and inauspicious when it is not?

If we look at us in our relationships. In all our relationships todays, we have many 'WANTS' from many people . Even our language and our way of thinking have change today . So we say , "I want love . I want respect . I want trust" . " I want people to obey me "  " I want people to meet my expectations ". Want.. want.. want.. there is so much that  we want . How many people we want from?? As long as we are standing in that line " wanting" . Sometimes we get what we want , other times we don't get . Always we remain dependent on other people. Only when they give us something then we will feel good , the we will feel happy.

Happiness can never exist on the side of 'wants' . This is why even after making efforts , Our relationships are not strong . They are not in harmony , they are not smooth . Because everyone is wanting something. The person we want something from , they also want something from us . So when one of us say , " I want love , I want respect". The other says," I want them first". Both of us are standing in the line of wants .

Who is the one to give??

If everyone at home is standing on the side of wants. Life then becomes inauspicious or unhappy . Because there is no one to give at home , everyone wants. Husband wants from wife  and wife in turn wants from husband . Parents want from children and children want from parents.

Who will give ??

So every home needs one "🪔 DIYA " 

' diya 🪔 ' means I the soul , need Nothing from anyone . Let us repeat this though every day . I need Nothing from anyone . I the soul , am to a "GIVER" to everyone .

" I am a soul - we will light this flame 🔥 of love and respect "